Articles & Publications

Curve Magazine

• 3 Ways to Cultivate Self Love After a Breakup

• 5 Excuses That Keep You In An Unhappy Relationship

• Remember These 4 Ways To Take Care Of Yourself During Difficult Times

• Why Do We Stay In Bad Relationships? The most powerful relationship manipulation tool

• Five Ways To Take Care Of Ourselves After A Breakup

• Four Ways To Guard Against Ignoring Red Flags In Dating

• What I Learned By Celebrating A Wedding Without A Plus One

• Stop Making “My Ideal Girlfriend” Lists

• The Similarities Between Caffeine Addiction Recovery And Dating

• Lesbian Dating: 5 Red Flags That She’s Not The One: Several times I’ve stayed too long at the party in relationships and offer five ways I learned how to know it’s time to call it quits.

• Mindfully Starting Over In The New Year: How do we take a loss like a break up and turn it into a comeback?

• Girl Code Breaker: Is Girl Code a Thing? After a terrible boundary-crashing experience, I explore girl code and my own role in it.

• My Exes Have Been My Biggest Teachers in Life: It’s easy to blame our exes for relationship issues. But what role do we play?

• My Wild Summer: Determined to let go and live a little, I have a wild summer and learn about me.

• Ask Yourself These 6 Questions Before Dating A Friend: Considering dating a friend? Checkout these 6 questions to ask before going there.

• Kicking Dating Drama To The Curb: I got rid of the drama in my dating life by doing these 3 things.

• Dating shouldn’t be that hard. Is Dating the New Easy? I explore this idea and more in this article published by Curve magazine.

• The 4 Signs That Tell You a Relationship is Over: How do we know when a relationship is over? What is the difference between normal stuff and it’s over stuff?

• Organising Life, Starting With Relationships: Cleaning out the clutter in dating In what ways are living more simply at home and living more simply in dating alike?

 

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Epochalips

• How to be a withit dater http://www.epochalips.com/2017/01/lesbian-dating-5-great-ways-to-get-with-it/

• 5 tips for meeting your girlfriend’s family http://www.epochalips.com/2016/12/5-tips-for-meeting-your-gfs-family/

• 3 pillars of healthy relationships http://www.epochalips.com/2016/11/3-pillars-of-healthy-lesbian-relationships/

• Three wake up calls in dating http://www.epochalips.com/2016/10/lesbian-dating-3-wake-up-calls/

• The relaxation response and dating http://www.epochalips.com/2016/09/3-reasons-to-take-a-relaxed-approach-to-dating/

• 3 ways we ignore red flags in dating http://www.epochalips.com/2016/08/3-ways-lesbians-ignore-red-flags-when-dating/

• 3 signs of emotional abuse you may be overlooking http://www.epochalips.com/2016/07/lesbian-dating-3-signs-of-emotional-abuse/

• Lesbian breakup makeover http://www.epochalips.com/2015/11/a-lesbian-breakup-makeover/

• Marriage equality and identity http://www.epochalips.com/2015/08/marriage-equality-and-lesbian-identity/

• 3 tips for hitting on women We aren’t very good at hitting on each other in our community. How can we do it better? http://www.epochalips.com/2015/06/lesbian-dating-3-tips-to-pick-up-women/

• Red flags What are the real reasons we ignore red flags in relationships? http://www.epochalips.com/2014/11/why-lesbians-ignore-red-flags-when-dating/

• Football and dating Why do I feel like I know nothing about either? http://www.epochalips.com/2015/01/since-when-is-lesbian-dating-is-like-football/

• Online dating How can we have a better experience when it comes to online dating? http://www.epochalips.com/2015/01/three-tips-for-lesbian-online-dating/

• Bad apple of dating How do we know the difference between someone who just isn’t right for us and someone who is simply shady, or a bad apple? http://www.epochalips.com/2015/03/lesbian-dating-avoiding-the-bad-apple/

• Justice in dating Is there justice in dating? What happens when we stop looking for blame? http://www.epochalips.com/2015/04/a-big-lesbian-fk-you/

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Other

9 Tips for Dating a Cougar
http://www.top10bestdatingsites.com/lesbian/advice/9-tips-for-dating-a-cougar

What Your Orange Is the New Black Crush Says About You
http://www.top10bestdatingsites.com/lesbian/advice/coaching/what-your-orange-is-the-bew-black-crush-says-about-you

Top Halloween Date Ideas
http://www.top10bestdatingsites.com/lesbian/advice/top-halloween-date-ideas

4 Signs You’re Ready for a Physical Relationship
http://www.top10bestdatingsites.com/lesbian/advice/coaching/4-signs-you-are-ready-for-a-physical-relationship

10 Movies to Make Your First Dating Unforgettable
http://www.top10bestdatingsites.com/lesbian/advice/tips/ten-movies-to-make-your-first-date-unforgettable

Lesbians and the Fine Art of Flirting
http://www.top10bestdatingsites.com/lesbian/advice/coaching/lesbians-and-the-fine-art-of-flirting

Dating over 40: Join Online Dating
http://www.top10bestdatingsites.com/lesbian/advice/coaching/single-lesbians-over-40-avoid-the-bar-scene-and-join-online-dating

How to Write an Online Dating Profile
http://www.top10bestdatingsites.com/lesbian/advice/coaching/gay-ladies-here-are-5-ways-to-write-a-fabulous-online-profile

Letting You Shine in Your Online Profile
http://www.top10bestdatingsites.com/lesbian/advice/coaching/letting-you-shine-on-your-online-dating-profile

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Les Writes! Valentines Day Show 3 Girls Theater in San Francisco hosted this shared works event full of talented playwrights, writers and performers. I am honored to have been part of such a great show. I shared a piece titled, Improvising. http://www.sdwritergirl.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/LezWrites.pdf